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The Codependummy Podcast

As a young woman, you have been raised, reinforced, and rewarded to put the needs of others above your own (i.e., to be codependent). Now, in your 20s, you're finding yourself exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in crap relationships. You're tapped out at 22, burnt out at 25, or having a quarter-life-crisis as you approach 30 and asking, "If I'm doing everything to make everyone else happy, why am I so miserable?" This podcast is to help you undo all that so you can stop playing small and start taking up space, ya dummy! One episode at a time, I will help you let go of your codependent ways so you can stop being such a codependummy and shine like a codependiamond! Let's get to it!

Aug 29, 2022

-Why is discernment such a foreign concept to codependents?

-How can practicing proper discernment save your life?

-What are the 10 steps to develop discernment?

 

Thank you for your support and welcome to episode 89! This week, we are taking a deep-dive into the practice of discernment: the ability to judge well. I...


Aug 22, 2022

-What do anger, resentment, and rage look like in codependents?

-How does our guilt, shame, and embarrassment about our anger help us maintain our unhealthy relationships?

-Why we need to stop asking questions like "What's the point of being angry?" and instead get curious about our anger as a signal that something is...


Aug 15, 2022

-What can we codependummies learn from an analysis of “Love the Way You Lie” by Eminem and Rihanna? 

-What are some common themes touched on in the song that codependents tend to exhibit in toxic relationships? 

-What about songs like this encourage and enable our codependummy ways and how can we stop relating so...


Aug 8, 2022

-If all we’ve been is accommodating, appeasing, and appealing to others in non-reciprocating friendships, how do we start making meaningful connections?

-What do we do with the discouragement when we seek deeper connections but end up feeling even more disconnected?

-How do codependents balance the advice we get on...


Aug 1, 2022

-In what ways was Listener KT raised, reinforced, and rewarded for putting the needs of others above his own? And how has that left him exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in sh*t relationships?

 

-How did KT's efforts to negate his needs to maintain his romantic relationship work out? (hint: it didn't!)

 

-For KT to...