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The Codependummy Podcast

As a young woman, you have been raised, reinforced, and rewarded to put the needs of others above your own (i.e., to be codependent). Now, in your 20s, you're finding yourself exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in crap relationships. You're tapped out at 22, burnt out at 25, or having a quarter-life-crisis as you approach 30 and asking, "If I'm doing everything to make everyone else happy, why am I so miserable?" This podcast is to help you undo all that so you can stop playing small and start taking up space, ya dummy! One episode at a time, I will help you let go of your codependent ways so you can stop being such a codependummy and shine like a codependiamond! Let's get to it!

Nov 28, 2022

-What is Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and how can it be used to help us address our codependent thoughts, behaviors, and actions?

-Why is it disempowering to use the term “codependent” when describing ourselves? And how might it be helpful to focus more on describing our behaviors?

-What is a useful skill from...


Nov 21, 2022

-What is the Gottman Method and how does the approach help treat codependency in couples?

-Why do we get caught in cycles of criticism-defensiveness if and when we try to communicate our thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs?

-How do we differentiate between accepting versus trying to control or change others? And how...


Nov 14, 2022

-How was Listener SP raised, reinforced, and rewarded to put the needs of others above her own?

 

-And how has that left Listener SP exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in sh*t relationships, including the one she has with herself?

 

-How can Listener SP stop playing small and start taking up space when it comes...


Nov 7, 2022

-What is the “Demon Dance” and how do codependents tend to pursue while their partners withdraw?

 

-How are codependent relationships, at their worst, like those of parasites and hosts?

 

-When we’re stuck in an unhealthy relationship pattern, how can we cultivate attunement, separate responsibilities,...