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The Codependummy Podcast

As a young woman, you have been raised, reinforced, and rewarded to put the needs of others above your own (i.e., to be codependent). Now, in your 20s, you're finding yourself exhausted, exasperated, and enveloped in crap relationships. You're tapped out at 22, burnt out at 25, or having a quarter-life-crisis as you approach 30 and asking, "If I'm doing everything to make everyone else happy, why am I so miserable?" This podcast is to help you undo all that so you can stop playing small and start taking up space, ya dummy! One episode at a time, I will help you let go of your codependent ways so you can stop being such a codependummy and shine like a codependiamond! Let's get to it!

Sep 26, 2022

-How can loving baby girls turn into codependent daughters with their mothers?

-What messages do we get from our mothers that lead us to be passive, subservient, and conflict-avoidant?

-What are the initial steps we can take to heal our relationship with our mothers?

 

Welcome to Episode 93! This week, we are graced...


Sep 19, 2022

-We use the term all the time but what is “gaslighting” and how does it relate to codependency?

-How and why may codependents be more vulnerable to gaslighting (from partners, parents, pals, and peers alike)?

-What are the steps we can take to combat gaslighting in our relationships?

 

Welcome to episode 92!...


Sep 12, 2022

-What is trauma and how does it impact our codependency?

-What’s the difference between Big-T trauma, little-t trauma, and t-t-t-trauma (also known as complex trauma)?

-How can past emotional wounds lead us to lose ourselves in our relationships? And how can we reverse that pattern?

 

Welcome to episode 91! This week,...


Sep 5, 2022

-What is mansplaining and how does may it contribute to our codependency?

-How does perceiving ourselves through a male’s perspective cause us to lose self-compassion and self-tenderness when we need that the most?

-Why is it more difficult for women in a patriarchal society to cultivate personal authority? And easier...